Thank you all for being here this evening.
Thank you to all the trans people here this evening.
It is important for us who are embraced by our personal
transgender histories to come together to remember and mourn those who were
violently killed because they dared to live honestly and on their own terms.
I especially want to extend my personal thank you to all the
people who are here tonight that do not identify under the embrace of being
transgender, but who are here as allies.
However you do not serve just as sympathetic allies, but
perhaps more significantly you stand here tonight, as individual sources of
hope that our society may one day become a society without hate and the
needless loss of life.
We come together this evening with profound emotions and the
personal realization that trans people are 16 times more at risk of being murdered.
2008 has seen more trans people killed than any other year in the past.
Let us also not forget the issues of less overt harm done by
under employment, lack of health care, housing and education discrimination
issues. All things, we do not generally come here to the Trans Day of
Remembrance to remember.
We must also remember all the lives not taken by the obvious
dark hand of hate. We must mourn those lives taken by virtue of being
chronically unemployed, denied adequate health care, or endured unbearable
societal pressures.
In preparing for this somber event, I must admit to having a
variety of emotions. Many of you may share the same mix of emotions I struggle
to process. My feelings run the full range of emotions from anger
and fear to hope and validation.
I had to take the time to reaffirm my personal decisions on
how I should process these emotions and how I can personally affect the
political, social, and economic landscape we live in today.
I would like to take a moment to share some of my thoughts
with all of you with the hope that we can continue to build towards a time
where we can all look back on history and feel like we each had our impact on
making the world a better place to live for all people.
I suppose I may stand here this evening accused of being an
eternal optimist. As such, I stand here proudly guilty. What those who may see
that as a negative or as naive do not understand that the water of my optimism
has been drawn bucket by bucket from a well which is filled deeply with fear,
intolerance, disinformation, ignorance, apathy, confusion, and yes hate.
I spent a great deal of my life just trying to come to terms
with who I am and who you see here today. I see a great deal of hope in
the fact that more and more people are beginning their personally honest
journeys at a much younger age and that there are a number of increasing
resources to support them in living true to themselves as it should rightfully
be.
I’m given to hope that more scientific research is
happening to help understand that we are who we are, and that we have the
abundant capacity to contribute to society.
I’m given to hope each time I meet someone, who, by
virtue of their inherent privilege recognizes their personal ignorance about my
life experience, but takes the time and effort to get to know me personally. To
learn about my life, my individual struggles, and to come to the realization or
affirmation that I’m not just some sort of stereotype, but a fellow human
being with more in common with them than differences.
I was given to hope when our state legislature stood up to
fierce opposition to pass the most far reaching and comprehensive piece of
anti-discrimination legislation in the Oregon Equality Act. A statewide law,
which bans discrimination on many levels and at the same time, added gender
identity to our state’s Hate Crime statutes.
I’m given to hope when I recall the issues and
arguments regarding the Employment Non-Discrimination Act in congress
which came up in October of 2007 and saw an overwhelming coalition of people
come together to demand that the trans community not be left behind or
forgotten. I was personally overwhelmed at the outpouring of support and
resources. Those resources and support continue to be there today and in the
future despite the seemingly overshadowing national discussion regarding the
equal legal recognition of all committed relationships and families.
On the subject of equal relationship recognition, I am given
to hope as I see trans people realizing and actively supporting that issue as
an issue that affects us all and not just Gay and Lesbian people. Of note
are the numbers of trans people who were actively involved in the campaigns to
defeat the measures at the ballot box.
Truly, we must consciously work every day to strengthen the
individual threads that weave us as community and a greater society. We
should not concentrate on our differences. We must devote our efforts to how
all our lives interconnect to define who we are as humans.
From a very personal observation as an engaged political
creature, I am given to more hope for a brighter better future. From my window
of insight and experience, it is undeniable to me that trans people have a well
founded hope in the eventual future.
Prior to 4 years ago, gender identity and even the word
transgender did not appear in the context of a mainstream political candidate
speech. Let alone a candidate for the President of the United States.
Today, we see and hear gender identity and transgender are a part of the
mainstream political lexicon.
Four years ago, presidential candidate Howard Dean was most
likely the first candidate to include mention of transgender people in a public
campaign speech.
Just two years ago, gender identity and the issues of legal
protections were included in the platform and legislative agenda of a major
political party.
Just this last June, in the heat of a historical
Presidential election campaign, congress held its first public hearing on the
specific issue of employment discrimination experienced by transgender people.
Not only did congress hold this historical hearing, but also we heard members
of congress clearly repudiate and effectively expose those who oppose granting
us the most basic of legal protections.
Today, we have the first President of the United States who
has included gender identity as a part of their hiring policy.
Sorrowfully this happens on the heels of the murder of
another woman less than a week ago.
We all gather here this evening as gay, lesbian, bisexual,
transgender, and straight people. We also gather as people of color, people of
differing faiths, and people of differing life experiences. We come together
with realization and continued resolve that we must move forward in making the world
a better place for all us to live and for our children to enjoy.
We must however not rely on the passage of laws to change
our society. We must also take the individual opportunities to become more a
part of the everyday fabric of society to overcome that, which causes us to be
here tonight.
In closing, I am given to the hope that each of us here this
evening will not take this opportunity to walk away only to come back here next
year to mourn. That would only serve to deepen the tragedy of those we came
here to remember and those added to list of people we will grieve for next
year.
My hope and sincere call to each of you is to seek the
commitment in your own hearts and conscience to take advantage of every
opportunity you can, in your own way, in your time, and in your everyday lives,
to make a difference. Remember, that no act, or deed is too small or
insignificant. Find your passion; actively seek your own opportunities, do not
wait for an email or phone call urging you to take action. Empower yourself
to take the time to look around you, within your own wingspan to make a
difference.
Let us all come back here next year to remember those who
have passed at the hands of hate but also to celebrate and honor the memories
of their lives by having made a difference individually and collectively.
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